We are open to having a close relationship with you and want you to know that you will always be a special part of our lives. Without you, we would not be able to have the family we’ve always wanted. We plan to send updates to you annually or as often as we can, and we feel that it is important for you to visit us when you feel ready. We want you to know that we accept any amount of relationship that you want, whether that be nonexistent or an important part of our lives.
When it comes to talking to our children about their mother, we plan on telling them about how amazing their mother is for being so selfless and how their mother has made the most beautiful choice of all. We plan to refer to their mother as a close family friend who means so much to our family.
We know that this may be one of the biggest decisions of your life, but we will always be here for you. We want you to know that we will love your baby as if there were no other person in the world. Your baby will be as protected as the most precious gemstone in the whole world. We will let nothing happen to them, as they mean more to us than anything on the planet. Knowing this, we both hope that it will bring some peace of mind.
With love,
Diego and Daniel