Lea

I’m hopeful for a relationship that feels natural—something like a friendship with healthy boundaries and built on mutual respect. I don’t expect anything specific from you, and there’s no pressure for our connection to look any certain way. I’m simply open to staying in touch in whatever way feels right for you. 

This may be the first time we’re walking a path like this together, and I know it may not always feel perfect. But I promise to show up for you with honesty, kindness, and an open heart. There may be moments of uncertainty, and I know mistakes can happen—but what matters most is that we keep trying.

I want you to know that with me, you will always have a safe and supportive space—one where you are cared for, respected, and never alone.

When I talk to your baby about you, it will always be with kindness, honesty, and respect.  They will grow up knowing where they came from and how deeply they are loved.  I will make sure they understand that choosing adoption takes incredible strength—and that your strength is something they can always be proud of.

Most of all, your baby will be cherished, protected, and raised with warmth, intention, and so much love. They’ll always know they were cared for by you first.

I’ve always imagined myself becoming a parent. For a few years, I was in a relationship where we talked openly about having kids. Unfortunately, I’m unable to get pregnant due to endometriosis, and after trying several other avenues that didn’t work out, we found ourselves asking a hard question: Would we be happy living our lives without children?

His answer was yes. Mine was no. And that honest moment is what brought me here.

I know I will be a good parent, and I’m excited for this journey.  I’m ready for whatever the future holds, and I truly believe adoption is the path I’m meant to be on—a path where I can love a child with my whole heart.

Nature: I love exploring California—from the salty beach breeze to the snowy mountains and the starry desert skies. Living near the Southern California coast keeps me grounded. The ocean air, sunshine, and peaceful walks with my dogs bring calm to my day, and I look forward to sharing this beautiful, peaceful lifestyle with a child.

Community: I’m fortunate to be surrounded by people who truly care, giving me a safe space to be myself. My friends and neighbors are family, and I’m especially grateful for my “second mom” next door—steady, loving, and always there when needed.

Everyday Moments: Good food, great company, and gorgeous sunny days with stunning Pacific Ocean views are at the heart of my everyday life.

I’m a mix of fun, quirky energy and a calm, steady presence—playful and curious, yet grounded and attentive when it matters most. When I’m caring for people, I stay focused, present, and calm. I am naturally protective, and one of my greatest gifts is helping others feel safe, seen, and heard.

These qualities come from the way I was raised—by the Golden Rule, to treat others the way they want to be treated. If I can help, I do, which led me to a career as a nurse. With over 15 years of experience, I’ve developed a kind of intuition—a sixth sense for knowing when someone needs help or reassurance. My career has taught me humility, gratitude, and the importance of showing up for people in their most vulnerable moments.

My friend Amy said once that “you can’t take words back” — and it stuck with me. It reminds me to speak with honesty and care, especially in the moments that matter.

My mom used to crack up every time she quoted, “Pick yourself up by the bra straps.” It still makes me smile. Her mix of humor and tough love taught me resilience — and how to find lightness even on hard days.

“Everyone deserves to be seen and heard.”

— Queer Eye, Final Season

My beach town is full of laid‑back, sunny days where individuality, creativity, and acceptance are encouraged.

The community here is wonderfully diverse. Most people aren’t originally from here, which creates a place where you choose your second family. It’s a supportive, welcoming environment I’m proud to be part of.

At home, gardening, repurposing, and decorating let me express my creativity. I love making peaceful little spaces both indoors and outdoors, often with unique vintage treasures. I seem to have a knack for making a space feel warm and comfortable — palm trees swaying outside and cozy touches inside.  A place where your child will grow up in sunshine, ocean air, and community.

I’m inspired by a group of resilient women I’m lucky to call friends. Here in California, I’ve found a strong support system — women who understand the ups and downs of infertility and who celebrate all the different ways families are created. They’ve become my safe place and helped me build a true sense of home, especially since my family live in the Midwest.

Our village is full of love, encouragement, and genuine excitement for the addition of a little one. Everyone is ready to show up, cheer us on, and surround a child with kindness, love, and stability.

I’m incredibly close with my neighbor. We call on each other for absolutely anything, and we look out for one another in the everyday ways that matter. She’s generous, steady, and already thrilled to spoil her first “grandkid.”

We’re all truly excited for this next chapter and ready to welcome a child into a community that will love them deeply.

I am fully open to adopting a child of a different race or culture. I know that a child’s identity is shaped not just by traditions, but by real relationships and community. My goal is to make sure they stay connected to people who share their background and to support them in building those relationships. I’m committed to creating a home where their culture is honored, celebrated, and part of their life — not something I try to teach them alone, but something they get to experience through people and communities who live it.

One of my favorite family traditions is our Christmas gift exchange. We’re known for unforgettable gag gifts — one was an old hornet’s nest. Don’t worry, not everything is a gag, but the laughter always is.

I love introducing kids to my dog, Frank, as “Uncle Frank.” It’s a fun way to help them feel comfortable around animals and learn how to interact with pets in a gentle, respectful way.

I’m excited to learn and celebrate any cultural traditions that are important to your child and their background — I’m always open to learning from you, too. I know that culture isn’t something I can teach on my own; it comes from people, community, and lived experience. My role is to make sure your child stays connected to those roots and has the space, support, and relationships they need to truly know where they come from.

In my home, traditions come with plenty of laughter, curiosity, and joy — the kind of moments that help your child feel proud of who they are and where they come from. I’m looking forward to building traditions that feel joyful, meaningful, and uniquely theirs.

My pets are like family — Franklin Bones, Hazel Nut, and Stewart Big the cat. They’re part of my everyday life and bring so much joy, comfort, and laughter into my home. They mean the world to me, and I can’t imagine life without their quirky personalities and the companionship they bring.

• I want to share my life with a child — to guide them, learn alongside them, and grow together in all the small, meaningful moments.
• I will create a home where your child feels accepted, celebrated, and deeply loved.
• I will surround them with good people who bring kindness, laughter, and steady support.
• I will share simple joys with them — beach walks, gardening, and noticing beauty in everyday life.
• I will teach them kindness, respect, and the confidence to be exactly who they are.
• I will make sure they know their voice and feelings matter.

Thank you for taking the time to read my profile. My promise as a parent is simple: I will show up every day for your child. I will do my best, take accountability when I fall short, and keep learning with an open heart. I will support your child without judgment, cheer them on, and celebrate every milestone. It would be the greatest honor of my life to love and nurture your child, make sure they feel seen and heard, and to give them a home filled with warmth and a safe, loving environment. My promise is to love and protect your child no matter the circumstance. If you’d like to talk, I would be grateful to connect. I’m here to listen, and to learn, and to make sure this process feels right for us.